Tag «Relationships»

Entitlement vs. Ownership… Side Chicks.

Sooooo… my thoughts today are on relationships [go figure]. Entitlement vs. Ownership. I want you heaux folk to understand the difference, because there most definitely is one. Both make you feel like you have some sort of claims, when in reality you may not. I’ll give you some examples: Entitlement: When you’ve invested so much …

Bitter Women vs. Hurt Men

Two words: Double. Standard. Men be sooooooo quick to scrutinize a hurt woman; said woman is usually in one of a few predicaments: She’s been hurt and still coping [bitter] She’s been hurt and doesn’t know how to cope [bitter] She’s been hurt and currently getting hurt [bitter] Men will tear apart a bitter woman, …

The Lie: When She Gets Mad

For all the guys out there that have ever gotten into an argument with an intelligent [black] woman because you lied, this post is predominately for you. This is usually the course of how things go that elevate a woman to blank on you. Lesson #1: Do not lie. We will find out. And we …

Displaced Feelings

Setting: Girl sits alone at table in a half empty restaurant. Phone lights up, message reads “Running late, be there soon.” Girl: I finally agree to see him and he decides to show up late. Looks at watch. 6:36 pm. I’ll give him 10 more minutes then I’m out of here. Waitress walks up. Waitress: “Good evening, …

Perfect Timing

“Is there any such thing? Considering there’s no such thing as “perfect”. I’m pretty sure there’s no such a thing as “perfect timing”. Now, patience, is a virtue. And it’s something I wasn’t born with. Honest to God. I wish it were different butttt it’s not. Time has never really been on my side, it’s …

Happy Father’s Day [syyyyykeeee]

I blame him. Well, only because I don’t know who else’s fault it could be. For every woman that has been raised fatherless, you’re probably just as fucked up off-beat as I am. It does something to you, not having one does. You don’t always realize it when you’re younger. But as you get older …

Mistake

The longer you think about it, the more you’ll be able to justify what you did. In a way you kind of have to, or else it would feel too much like you made a mistake. But you did. Like most, you won’t know it til it’s too late. But it won’t stop you from …

[Disney] Pocahontas Love

If you’ve never watched [Disney] Pocahontas, you won’t understand me and I highly recommend that you go watch it. I promise you’ll get into it and even better, know what the heck I’m talking about. Now, how many of you women love like [Disney] Pocahontas? She was the definition of a true “ride or die”. …

Can I Try it Before I Buy it?

This goes out to all you jackasses guys who feel like you need to “test drive” before you “purchase”. This is not to suggest that women are items waiting to be purchased before usage, but rather a metaphor to emphasize the ridiculousness of the idea that one must “try it before I buy it” in …

Teach Me How to Love: 101

Dear Musiq, We got beef. In his song “Teach me”, he romanticizes teaching an individual how to “love”. He identifies himself as a man, that in fact, does not know how to adequately love a woman and because of that, there are issues in his relationship [purpose of the song]. Now he speaks of being a man …