Tag «Dating»

Transparency… or Lack Thereof

As you get older and experience life, you learn a lot about yourself. What you like annnnd… what you don’t like. *Cue Chief Keef¬†That’s that ish I don’t like* In relationships: A lying nigga, that’s that shit I don’t like./ A cheating nigga, that’s that shit I don’t like./ A lazy nigga, that’s that shit …

I’m Grown… Unfortunately.

As a budding adult I’ve realized one thing that is very clear to me. I don’t want to grow up. Back in the day I could not WAIT to be “grown”, but as I get older I realize that being “grown” is highly overrated. If I could somehow alter my past request of “I can’t …

Letter to my Ex

It’s real easy to be pissed at you right now, but then I sit and think that you’re conditioned to be the way you are. Conditioned by the people who were supposed to love you, by the ones who loved you and turned on you, by enemies, by society and by the high security mental …

Sometimes You Feel Like a Nut, Sometimes You Don’t

“We don’t wanna neva end…you walking out you walking back again… I don’t done took your heart boy, held it up for ransom…Ain’t tryna be cocky, I got yo heart in my pocket.” -Future, feat. Kelly Rowland My rant for today is on “off again/on again relationships”. If you’ve never been in one yourself, I’m …

She’s Always Right, He’s Never Wrong…

Sooooo, men commonly argue that “a woman always thinks she’s right” and blah blah blah. Well, I’ve got news for you guys. Men are the EXACT same way. Lemme explain. There are very few men who regularly admit that they are wrong and then apologize. Now don’t get this confused with him apologizing, because men …

You Can’t Handle the Truth!

So folk always talmbout how they want a relationship filled with honesty. Honesty in my opinion is highly overrated.To keep it one hundred withcha, I can only handle so much honesty, I’m too damn sensitive to know the truth all of the time. I can admit that. The problem is, the female you’re dealing with …

Entitlement vs. Ownership… Side Chicks.

Sooooo… my thoughts today are on relationships [go figure]. Entitlement vs. Ownership. I want you heaux folk to understand the difference, because there most definitely is one. Both make you feel like you have some sort of claims, when in reality you may not. I’ll give you some examples: Entitlement: When you’ve invested so much …

Bitter Women vs. Hurt Men

Two words: Double. Standard. Men be sooooooo quick to scrutinize a hurt woman; said woman is usually in one of a few predicaments: She’s been hurt and still coping [bitter] She’s been hurt and doesn’t know how to cope [bitter] She’s been hurt and currently getting hurt [bitter] Men will tear apart a bitter woman, …

The Lie: When She Gets Mad

For all the guys out there that have ever gotten into an argument with an intelligent [black] woman because you lied, this post is predominately for you. This is usually the course of how things go that elevate a woman to blank on you. Lesson #1: Do not lie. We will find out. And we …

Perfect Timing

“Is there any such thing? Considering there’s no such thing as “perfect”. I’m pretty sure there’s no such a thing as “perfect timing”. Now, patience, is a virtue. And it’s something I wasn’t born with. Honest to God. I wish it were different butttt it’s not. Time has never really been on my side, it’s …